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Wednesday, May 02, 2012

Casualties Of Time

 

As a society it seems as if we value just about everything as it ages. Things like…

Wine: (Paul Masson "We will sell no wine before its time") There seems to be a general belief that when it comes to wine, older is definitely better. People have paid out extraordinary amounts of money to own rare and highly sought after spirits.

And houses: Although most houses fall into the "decrepit" category after 100 years (or less in some cases), there are still many houses (even older) that are considered "vintage" and sell for a premium, especially American Craftsman Style homes if they have all or most of their original "built ins" or have been designated historical landmarks.

And of course, baseball cards: The most expensive baseball card in the world right now is one from 1909 that was sold for a staggering $2.8 million!

Now, while I certainly think all of these aged-collectable are nice, the most notable and surprising exception to inclusion in this time-established ranking of seniority... is people.

It’s really sad to me that as people get older, instead of treating them with respect and dignity, many of them are treated like a nuisance. An inconvenience at best. We cast our elderly aside like yesterdays newspaper. Maybe good for recycling, but more likely to be used as lining in bird cages. Where is the honor many of the aged among us so rightfully deserve? When did we become so careless with our ancestry?

I’ve purposed to simply record conversation with my older relatives, especially my parents. I sit and ask questions about a bygone era that shaped the people they eventually became. People who fell in love, got married and gave me life. I realized a long time ago that there is so much to be learned from their lifetime of experiences. I learn about our country’s history from a first-hand accounting of events. I learn about the transformation of what constituted entertainment. And I learn about our community both large and small, as well as its victories and its defeats.

So just remember, by the grace of God, we’ll all get old eventually. Make the time to give your elders the time and attention they deserve. Because the hearts of this extraordinary population, and the wisdom-laden information they provide are in a word... priceless.

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Nicely put.
Posted 5/2/2012 9:11 AM by KnightInCROATIANarmor Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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Great post! I'm from a tiny country and thank God we still have a strong sense of community, our elders still have all our love and respect and I hope we will continue to hear them and fill them with love.
Posted 5/2/2012 9:18 AM by xXxlovelylollipop Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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I just heard a story this past week...a 59 year old woman who was out hiking broke her ankle and was stuck alone in the woods for 4 days.
She is doing ok now. Anyway, under the story were comments, one of the comments was written by a young person....
They said they have no sympathy for a person in their 50's. They said she shouldn't be out hiking anyway!

How terrible, how sad. This is the way society views getting older....no respect.

Great post. =)
Posted 5/2/2012 10:08 AM by Elizabethmarie_1 Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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@KnightInCROATIANarmor -  Thanks.

@xXxlovelylollipop -  That's wonderful. If you don't mind me asking, what country are you from?

@Elizabethmarie_1 -  Ugh... people can be horrible. You know, I studied Gerontology in college specifically with the intention of influencing legislation concerning the elderly. Got sidetracked into other nonprofit endeavors, but it's still a passion of mine. Thanks for commenting!
Posted 5/2/2012 10:37 AM by MyxlDove Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - recommend - reply

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@MyxlDove - Guatemala, a small country in Central America.
Posted 5/2/2012 10:42 AM by xXxlovelylollipop Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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... :) Thank you for sharing this reminder! Hopefully one day I can work in geriatrics, treating older people with the love and respect they need. And hopefully, I can inspire other people to treat people just as that -- people. :)

How have you been, Myxl? It's been too long since I last updated myself on you! :p
Posted 5/2/2012 11:19 AM by akarui_mitsukai Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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Great post. And so so true. I used to work in geriatric nursing homes and I think it's disgusting the way we discard our elderly.

Posted 5/2/2012 5:05 PM by comet555 - recommend - reply

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I've always really, really liked old people.  Maybe because I grew up with all four grandparents.  Lotta people don't though. Rec my comment if you want a rec from me on this which I would have otherwise given you but I can't rec this theme right now.
Posted 5/2/2012 10:24 PM by James_River Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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Sweet soft-hearted Dove... May you continue to find and express the joy you feel by being surrounded by your beautiful family. Good bye, be well. :)
Posted 5/10/2012 4:58 AM by imTHEmeowMIXcat Xanga True Member - recommend - reply


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