January 2009
I made a Happy New Year video.
I wrote a Public Services Announcement regarding Lurker Etiquette.
I posted five (5) different Dove Notes and ten (10) Random Dove Thoughts that month.
And the TBO series kicked off with the always pleasant elelkewljay. There were four (4) that month.
I metablogged about Popularity and Preference.
And I had two (2) separate posts featured on -ish sites. One on Datingish and the other on HardestLevel.
And I talked about the personal challenges of an interracial, mixed-heritage family.


February 2009
Twelve (12) TBOs, three (3) RDTs and one (1) Dove Note that month.
I blogged about the destruction of my first marriage.
I wrote two (2) Xanga Tutorials. One about gaining TRUE Status and one about Top Blogs.
I talked about how amazing my father is to me.
And 12 Signs You're A Dad.


March 2009
Ten (10) TBOs and seven (7) RDTs that month.
I wrote a letter to God.
Added another post to the Just Ask Myxl (JAM) series.
Caught some flak for the infamous erotica post.
I had another post featured on Datingish.
And I held the first (and probably last) Xanga Bachelor Auction.


April 2009
Seven (7) TBOs and two (2) RDTs that month.
There was the brilliant collaborative April Fools Joke with my twin brother sister, Kris.
The beginning of the series of Completely Pointless Questions. There were five (5) that month.
I dished the dirt on my secret Xanga blogs.
My post on Epilepsy was featured on Xanga.
And that month saw the debut of Aaron's Ottoman Surfing video.


May 2009
Four (4) TBOs, two (2) RDTs and five (5) Dove Notes that month.
Aaron returned with a follow video illustrating the joy of running in circles.
I asked people if they were stupid.
And wrote another PSA about Xanga Crushes.
I confessed that I learned everything from Vanedave.
Caused an uproar with my petition to Ban Dan from Xanga.
And shared a video of Myxl, Jr. singing.


June 2009
Seven (7) TBOs and three (3) RDTs that month.
My post on Domestic Violence was featured on Xanga, my post on Premarital Sex was posted on Revelife.
I talked about the hole in my soul.
And I retold the story about Myxl Dove.


July 2009
Five (5) TBOs and four (4) RDTs that month.
I wrote another Xanga Tutorial about setting up Xanga TV.
I participated in one_eared_batman's Xanga Video Project.
And I encouraged everyone to send their expired coupons to the military.


August 2009
Two (2) TBOs, two (2) RDTs, two (2) CPQs and one (1) Dove Note that month.
I talked about all the Xangans I'd Like To Meet.
My apparent flirting style was profiled in a post by TheTheologiansCafe.
Celebrated my 5 year wedding anniversary by sharing our wedding video.
I told the three-part story of How I Met Your Mother.
And waxed eloquently about the Unphysical Things.


September 2009
Four (4) TBOs, five (5) RDTs and one (1) Dove Note that month.
I unsuccessfully campaigned for Xanga King.
I participated in Roadlesstaken's Xangan Picture Collaboration.
Explained the limitations of honesty online.
Shared the pain of a Judas Kiss.
I dedicated another post to my superhero dad.
And presented the first TAO in The Adorable Ones series, which was selected as a Best Of The Week post by the incomparable saintvi.


October 2009
Two (2) TBOs and three (3) CPQs that month.
I asked if people only have pieces of you.
And of course there was the hugely successful San Diego Xanga Meetup.
I posed the question as to whether or not people would be willing to pay for Xanga.
And I got on my soapbox to talk about how much I despise cheater.


November 2009
Three (3) TBOs and one (1) Dove Note that month.
I asked about fishing for compliments.
I was transformed by unworthyofhisgrace.
I talked about new love after the death of a significant other.
Had a little fun with the Top 10 Awkward Things To Say To A Coworker.
And topped it off with a discussion about my changing job responsibilities.


December 2009
Six (6) TBOs, one (1) RDT and two (2) CPQs that month.
I shared my poem about wishing I'd believed her sooner.
And asked everyone to join me in putting an end to trends.
I wrote and recorded a special holiday song for Xanga.